Wednesday, February 12, 2014

The Importance of Milestones

A friend recently shared with me the following quote from baseball great Satchel Paige:

 “How old would you be if you didn't know how old you are?”

Since I've just celebrated a milestone birthday, I decided to ponder that question. I concluded that since I wouldn't have known then, what I know now—this is my best age. I've had the opportunity to do many wonderful things in my life, but nothing compares to the peace I feel today of being comfortable in my own skin. That doesn't mean that there isn't room for improvement—there definitely is. There are many lessons I've learned over the years that contribute to my contentment at this stage of life. But there are areas of life that I want to work on in the next decade. And they all start with the letter “C.” With help from the definitions found in and the New International Version of the Bible, here is my list:

•   Courage - To face difficulty without fear, and to not flinch in the midst of criticism.
I don’t want to be debilitated by my fears, but I want to face them and overcome them. I am reminded of the Bible verse in 1 John 4:18 “There is no fear in love. But perfect love drives out fear…”  To me, this means I should not rely on my own strength when faced with life’s challenges, but on the perfect love of God. 
 •   Compassion – To deeply feel for someone dealing with misfortune, with a strong desire to help their suffering.
It’s all too human to turn a blind eye to human suffering and to think its someone else’s problem and not mine. I want my eyes to be open and to be aware of those persons whose lives I can impact. Gal. 6:2 “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”

•   Creativity – To be inspired to generate new ideas and ways of expressing myself.
I am finding that in my “older years” I have more time to dream, be creative, and share those thoughts with others. If the Lord gives me time and the ability, there is an historical novel deep down inside waiting to be written.  “For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand so that we would walk in them” (Ephesians 2:10).

•   Connectedness – To develop new relationships and nurture existing ones with friends, family, and acquaintances. 
I want to see each person as having been placed in my life for a reason and a season. “Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help.” Ecclesiastes 4:9–12.   It’s my goal to connect and be connected with as many interesting and inspiring people as possible.

Please comment below if you would like to join me on my journey.


  1. Love it Frieda that you are always open to others and learning new things. Age is your motivator, not your obstacle. Great post!

  2. A powerful statement, Frieda, for future goals! I like your plans for the 4 Cs. We all need to be mindful that each day is a new chance for accomplishment, regardless of age and circumstance. A thoughtful, inspiring blog! And belated Happy Birthday!

  3. Beautifully written by a beautiful woman, inside and out. If we all follow the 4 "C's", life would flow so much better. Thank you Frieda.

  4. Very insightful! In fact, I want to save your ideas and remind myself about the 4 Cs and what true contentment is all about.

  5. There should be a 5th C with a lower case i....inspiring Cousin. Thank you and Happy Birthday dear Cousin.

  6. Happy birthday to you. I know you will be faithful to work devote more time to the 4"C. May you be blessed with the health and the time to accomplish your goals.

  7. A Beautiful Blog. Your Middle Sis would add Contentment as a 5th C. Contentment with the way things are in my life, knowing The Lord is in control- Philippians 4:11.