Who
doesn’t want a do-over?
American humorist Will Rogers is credited
with saying,
“You never get a
second chance to make a first impression.”
Sports teams and players often wish they could undo
the big mistake that cost them the game. Even with instant replay, they seldom
get a “do-over.”
Life presents most of us with numerous opportunities
to try again for success. In a way, the start of every year and even every day
is a new beginning—a second chance. In the Weight Watchers program, we are told
if you mess up your food choices one day, start fresh the next and get back on
tract.
What life events produce the opportunity for a
second chance? They are very stressful and change life in an instant.
- · Loss of a loved one, job, or relationship
- · Traumatic event, accident, or natural disaster
- · A health crisis
- · Failure or defeat
The American Psychological Association explains the
importance of resilience in recovering from stressful situations. “Resilience is the process of adapting well in the face of
adversity, trauma, tragedy, threats or significant sources of stress—such as family and relationship problems, serious health
problems or workplace and
financial stressors. It means "bouncing back" from difficult
experiences. Research has shown that resilience is ordinary, not extraordinary.
People commonly demonstrate resilience. One example is the response of many
Americans to the September 11, 2001 terrorist attacks and individuals' efforts
to rebuild their lives.”
Many non-fiction books and
movies are written about people who overcome major adversity and develop the
skills necessary to move on with their lives. Sometimes
you have to experience the worst to appreciate the best.
The ultimate “do-over” or second chance is laid out
in the third chapter of the Gospel of John. The process of being “born from
above” transforms a person and gives them the ability to see the world through
spiritual eyes and grants a believer eternal life. John 3:6-7
April is National Donate Life Month which recognizes and celebrates organ
donation. The selfless act of organ donation provides second chances for
recipients who would otherwise die from organ failure.
I spoke this
week at a Christian Women’s Connection luncheon with the theme, “Second
Chances.” They promoted the importance
of organ donation and I presented my story and testimony—“Three Amazing Gifts
and a Second Chance at Life.”
My speech was inspired by my memoir which many of
you have read. My book makes a great gift for someone dealing with difficult
times.
.
Born Three Times—A
New Life, A New Liver, A New Love
Until 4/30/17, I am selling signed copies of my
book for $13 each (includes US postage.) Send an email to friedasdixon@gmail.com. A stamped,
addressed envelope will be enclosed for your payment convenience.
Comment on my blog below and tell me about your gift of second
chances.
I know you give glory to the Lord and buy up all opportunities to speak for HIM! God bless you both as you take advantage of each day! Love you, Carleen
ReplyDeleteAnother solid thought to ponder...2nd chances, do-overs, and even U-turns. Thanks so much for reminding us that we might still have tomorrow to get it right.
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