Thursday, May 19, 2016

Live Longer & Healthier

Everyone wants to live a longer and healthier life. Numerous website and magazines provide plenty of advice on how to care for your body and maximize your lifespan.
Eat the right food, exercise, drink lots of water, make sleep a priority, don’t smoke or use illegal drugs, and maintain a healthy weight are on every list.  Recently several articles have appeared on news and Facebook feeds about the importance of faith, prayer, and church attendance in a longer-healthier life.  In August 2025 I referenced two studies in my blog post The Pursuit of Happiness.


More studies have followed that have led to some surprising conclusions. Seven benefits of an active faith are described by researchers as follows:


                                                           Happiness

Participation in religious organizations was ‘the only social activity associated with sustained happiness.’ Researchers noted, however, that it is unclear whether the benefits of participating in a religious organization are linked to being in the religious community, or to the faith itself. 
The Week,  The Key to Sustained Happiness, 8.15.15

                                                       Less Depression
                 
Regardless of unhealthy or healthy habits, the study found that people who attended one religious service each week were less likely to be depressed than those who did not. Since depression can impact longevity, such attendance might help. And a 1998 study published in the American Journal of Public Health found that elderly community residents who regularly attended church services lived longer than those who did not partake.  Health.com,  21 Reasons you Will Live Longer Than your Friends,  Michael De Medeiros, 9.19.15

                                            Stress Relief

A number of studies have found that devout people have fewer symptoms of depression and anxiety, as well as a better ability to cope with stress. Certain religious practices may even change the brain in a way that boosts mental health, studies suggest.
The Science of Religion: How Spirituality Impacts Mental Health, Rachael Rettner, 9.29.15 

                                                    Better Mental Health

For example, a 2005 study of older adults in the San Francisco Bay area found that being religious served as a buffer against depression among people in poorer health, with the highest levels of depression among those who were in poor health and not religious. In addition, a 2013 study found that patients who are being treated for mental-health issues such as depression or anxiety responded better to treatment if they believed in God. The Science of Religion: How Spirituality Impacts Mental Health, Rachael Rettner, 9.29.15

                                               Purpose & Meaning in Life

In another review of 93 studies on religion and health, Dr. Harold G. Koenig, director of the Center for Spirituality, Theology and Health at Duke University Medical Center, found that more religious people had fewer depressive symptoms."People who are more involved in religious practices and who are more religiously committed seem to cope better with stress," Koenig said. "One of the reasons is because [religion] gives people a sense of purpose and meaning in life, and that helps them to make sense of negative things that happen to them," Koenig said. A person's religious community can also provide support and encouragement through hard times, he said."

                                                       Healthier Brain

Studies on the brains of religious people may also provide an explanation for the link between religion and mental-health benefits, said Dr. Andrew Newberg, a neuroscientist at Thomas Jefferson University and Hospital in Philadelphia. Studies suggest that meditation, and meditative prayer (such as prayer that repeats a particular phrase), activate areas of the brain involved in regulating emotional responses, including the frontal lobes, Newberg said."It's also possible that the beliefs and teachings advocated by a religion — like forgiveness, love and compassion — may ‘become integrated into the way the brain works. The more that certain neural connections in the brain are used, the stronger they become, he said, so if a religion advocates compassion, the neural circuits involved in thinking about compassion become stronger.”
 
                                       Longer Life

Women who attend religious services frequently may live longer than women who don't, new research suggests. Women who attended religious services regularly were 33 percent less likely to die during the study period, compared with women who never attended services. Once-a-week attendees were 26 percent less likely to die, and those attending less than once a week were 23 percent less likely to die. Overall, frequent religious attendance was associated with a 27 percent lower likelihood of dying from cardiovascular disease and a 21 percent lower risk of death from cancer. Frequent attendance was also associated with significantly less risk of breast cancer and colorectal cancer.  Religious Service Attendance Tied to Longer Life, Reuters, 5.16.16

We know that being a Christian gives us eternal life in heaven and abundant life here on earth. Now, it appears that the scientific benefits for our bodies and minds are equally important. Say your prayers, read your Bible, and go to church on Sunday. It just might save your life.







Tuesday, May 10, 2016

Blog Along with Me

Today I write blog post #98 and celebrate the fourth anniversary of Too/Two Late Bloomers, which I started in May 2012. During these four years, 20,000 people in over 20 countries have clicked on my blog. I think that is something to celebrate. Last week I taught a class on blogging for beginners at my Christian Authors Guild writers’ group and was amazed that my experience encourages others to take a leap into the blogosphere. 

People benefit from blogging—especially senior adults— according to Carla K Johnson of the Associated Press who wrote an article entitled “Senior Citizen Bloggers Defy Stereotypes” in 2005. Putting your thoughts on paper and online is good therapy.

Blogging helps all age groups because people are writing about topics of interest to them. Blogging keeps our mental juices flowing and connects us with people of like interest. When people blog, they are not in front of the TV and are being creative. While reading and writing blogs, folks grow and learn each day.

You have gotten to know me and my late bloomer husband through my blog and now I’d like to know you better.

What would you blog about if you had the chance?

Here’s your opportunity. I am soliciting input for my blog from you and throwing out a challenge. Submit a paragraph or poem to me on any subject you like, and after editing I will publish it on my blog during the month of June. You can identify yourself or submit it anonymously. Here are some topics to choose from along with others that interest you.
  • Rites of passage – graduations, weddings, new jobs, retirement
  • Summer holidays – the flag, military service, parades, picnics
  • Seasons of Life – empty nest syndrome, senior adulthood, children/grandchildren
  • Spiritual Experiences – answered prayers, helping a neighbor, feeling God’s presence

Type your submission in the body of an email with the subject line reading: blog submission and send it to me at:  friedas@bellsouth.net

I can’t wait to see how many of you will accept the challenge.




Wednesday, April 27, 2016

Onward & Upward


Onward & Upward is the unofficial slogan of our company, Vortex Control Technologies. Charles and I started Consulting Aviation Services, the precursor of VCT, in 1996 and just celebrated our company’s 20th anniversary. In reality I think the slogan for both companies should be “Hurry Up & Wait.” 

It has been a long slog to bring Charles’ patented inventions that reduce drag on military and commercial aircraft into the marketplace.
The team of people working on our project

A milestone on the way to production occurred this month. At Edwards Air Force Base in the Mojave Desert in California, Air Force personnel representing the US, Canada, the UK, and Australia met to review the most recent flight test results using Charles’ devices on the C-17 cargo plane. The consensus of the meeting was that the first test results reached the targeted goals. Thumbs up approval was given to proceed to the next phase of testing which should produce even more drag reduction.  

When these Finlets are installed on the C-17, the Air Force will save millions of dollars in fuel. We hope that next year, we’ll be on our way to selling Finlets. However, we’ve been on this roller coaster ride many times before. So we remain cautiously optimistic that 2017 will be the year for the C-17. That has a nice ring to it, don’t you think?

Finlets on a C-17 Cargo Plane
For the first time, since we started this project, photos and newspaper articles are available. We can finally talk about it since the information is now declassified.The headline of the Edwards Air Force Base newspaper reads “C-17 Drag Reduction Testing Aims at Saving Fuel.” This picture shows the C-17 aircraft and the temporary installation of the orange flight test Finlets. The second phase of testing will begin in May.

Charles applied for the Finlets patent in 2004 and has been working consistently on this project for twelve years. The government contracts have been slow in coming and we have waited months and sometimes years before receiving another infusion of funds. Our patience has been tested and retested. Every time, we think the project is dead in the water, something will happen to keep the project and our hopes alive. We keep waiting for the day someone says “The check’s in the mail.” 

These two late bloomers remind each other almost daily to enjoy the journey since the destination is so elusive. Whether we profit monetarily from all this work, it has been worth the effort. Onward & Upward!

This Bible Verse from Isaiah 40:31 inspires us on the journey.

“But they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and they shall walk, and not faint.”

Wednesday, April 6, 2016

Celebrate Life

The more you praise and celebrate your life, the more there is in life to celebrate. Oprah Winfrey

Two amazing elderly women inspire me to make the most of every season of my life—no matter how old I am.

Just after her husband of 67 years died, Norma was diagnosed with cancer. Instead of getting the standard cancer treatment, she told her doctor, "I’m 90 years old. I’m hitting the road." She then began an indefinite road trip across the US with her retired son and his wife. (Excerpted from the Facebook page, Driving Miss Norma)

Accompanied by her Standard Poodle Ringo, Norma’s trip of a lifetime has so far included visiting the National Parks and Disney World. She has also enjoyed whale watching and riding in a hot air balloon. Sure beats radiation, chemotherapy, blood work, tests and more tests that might not make much difference in prolonging Norma’s life.


Miss Norma & Ringo

Jean Veloz is an American dancer born in the 1920’s. She started her dancing career when the Lindy and Jitterbug were sweeping the country. She and her husband, Ray, won many dance competitions and even stared in a movie about the new craze. Eventually, Jean married Frank Veloz, an international dancer, and they danced on Frank’s TV show until the 1950’s. She came out of retirement in 1992 and today at age 90 is “back in the swing of things” on the dance floor. She is celebrating life to the full and shows no signs of slowing down. Click on this link to see Jean dance.     http://sfglobe.com/?id=3093&src=fbfan_3093

The key to both of these remarkable women’s longevity is that they keep their bodies moving by staying active and keeping their minds sharp by engaging in life. 

The stated purpose of this blog is to motivate senior adults to discard the stereotypes of ageing and to find ways to celebrate life in spite of biological age. We call all discover what keeps us motivated and sharp as long as God keeps us on this earth. Just like Jean and Norma, we all have the potential to celebrate life to the fullest.


April is National Donate Life Month which is near and dear to my heart. So many lives are saved each day by families who in the midst of their grief make the difficult decision to donate their loved ones organs. You can help others have more healthy lives and enable them to live to enjoy their senior adult years, by becoming an organ donor. I will always be grateful to the family who made that a possibility for me.


Sunday, March 20, 2016

It's Time for a Change

Jim Rohn Quote
I am a BAH HUMBUG protester of Daylight Savings Time. It will take me at least a month to adjust to government imposed jet lag. I know some of you think I am crazy because you like the extra light at the end of the day. But I miss the sun streaming through the windows and the chirping of birds in the early morning. As a result of the time change, kids in Georgia have to once again wait in the dark for school buses creating a safety issue.

OK. I am done complaining. Now I can tell you why I celebrate change most of the time.
Gibbs Gardens

Just look around. Change is everywhere. Here in the South the landscape is exploding with new life. The white Bradford Pear trees, the pink Red-Bud trees, and yellow Forsythia are putting on the earliest and prettiest display I’ve seen in years. Can you imagine how bleak things would be if the trees and flowers stayed in their dormant state—refusing to bloom and shower the air with pollen and seeds? The purpose for which they were created would no longer exist and in a year or two all plant life would be dead.

People tend to avoid change because it involves risk. And risk is something we want to avoid at all costs especially as we grow older. There are some changes I’m facing as I’ve grown older that I’m trying to embrace.

1.     My body is slowing down and more things hurt. 
When I tell others how my liver transplant changed my life, I comment that “Now I get to have the aches and pains of old age just like everyone else.” While some might see that as a curse, I see it as a blessing. One hundred years ago people died at a much younger age and if they had a terminal disease like I did, they never would have survived. How can I embrace physical changes—keep moving and not give in to my aches and pains? To help keep me active, I am in physical therapy to loosen tight muscles in my hips that have caused me a lot of discomfort. The therapy is painful but productive.  It will allow me to keep active.

2.     My brain is not as nimble
There are days that brain fog takes over and I struggle to complete ordinary tasks. Gone are the days when I could multi-task and do three things at once. The big project I signed on to last month, seems monumental today. My solution:  Take a day off, and let the brain and body rest. I have a friend who calls this “aggressive resting.”  It an oxymoron, but it works. One of the advantages of growing older is that I can usually set my own schedule and get back to work when my energy returns.

3.     My stuff is overwhelming and I am less disciplined.
I have to practice discipline and vigilance to keep from becoming a pack rat and clutter collector.  I am not as organized with my stuff as I used to be. The changing season is forcing me to deal with my stuff, whether I want to or not. The first day of spring is March 20 and the weather this year in Georgia is right in sync. There will be still be some nippy nights, but mostly warm days are ahead. I am trying to pare down my closet to those things that fit, look decent, and are season appropriate.  For every article of clothes I buy, I pledge to donate at least two more. Now, I need motivation to deal with office paperwork and others projects that are stacked up. Getting started is half the battle. It’s like exercise, I feel a lot better after I’ve made the effort.

4.     My spirit desires a closer relationship to my Creator.
During this Holy Week leading to Easter, I want to spend more time reflecting on the great gift of salvation provided through the death and resurrection of God’s Son, Jesus. It is so easy to let all the other demands of spring crowd out the most important event in human history. My body and circumstances may change, but “Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.” (Hebrews 13:8)  Jesus never changes, but I have to constantly change so that I don’t become stagnant and useless in serving Him. The following quote by Gail Sheehy – motivates me to embrace all the changes that come my way.

“If we don't change, we don't grow. If we don't grow, we aren't really living.”

Wednesday, March 2, 2016

Take a Leap of Faith

Today is February 29, but some folks act as if the day doesn’t exist.  I attempted to read a selection in two of my devotional books, but there was none given for today. Now I know how “leaplings” feel who were born on Leap Day when they have a birthday only once every four years.

Adding a Leap Day every four years is an attempt to reconcile the Gregorian calendar with the rotations of the earth around the sun. Technically a complete orbit of the earth around the sun takes exactly 365, 2422 days to complete, so every four years we have 366 days to keep the calendar in sync with the sun. If a leap day was not in our calendar every four years, today would be July 10, 2017.

1996 was a special leap year for me. I took a leap out of my comfort zone and dipped my toe back into the dating scene. I had been widowed for ten years and was dealing with a terminal liver disease. The idea of dating and the fear of rejection were very scary. Charles and I met twenty years ago this week and soon discovered we were both looking for God’s will in our lives. It didn’t take us long to realize His will was leading us toward marriage. It was a risky leap of faith for both of us because of my health. Twenty years and one liver transplant later, we have no doubt that God was directing our paths.

In April of 1996, we started our company, Consulting Aviation Services. As an aerospace engineer, Charles believed his innovative ideas to improve aircraft performance and safety would benefit the aviation industry. Two patents and twenty years later, he is still working hard every day to accomplish his goal. This year he is working on both commercial and military contracts.  This will be our make it or break it year depending on results from flight tests in California and Germany. Every day our leap of faith into the unknown challenges our patience and perseverance.

Last weekend, we went to see the movie “Risen.” The Romans heard the rumors that Jesus would arise from the dead after his brutal crucifixion. When Jesus body disappeared from the tomb where he was buried, the Roman authorities were determined to find his body. They wanted to discredit the belief that Jesus was resurrected. A Roman soldier followed the early disciples in order to destroy the believers—instead his life was transformed by what he saw. He along with many others took a giant leap of faith and believed that Jesus was the long awaited Savior and Messiah.

What other leaps of faith await you during this Leap Year?
  • Traveling to that dream destination on your “bucket list.”
  •  Furthering your education in order to pursue a different career.
  •  Forgiving a person from your past and working on reconciliation.
  •  Making a personal commit to Jesus as your Savior or working toward a deeper relationship with Him.    

   A Leap Year is a good time to take a leap of faith.  
After all you have one more day to make it happen.








Thursday, February 18, 2016

Think Before You Vote

Every time, you turn on the TV, more and more problems seem unsolvable. Economic, national security, immigration, and healthcare issues dominate the headlines. The recent death of a Supreme Court Judge has left a void at a crucial time in our nation’s history. The next nominee will be scrutinized like none other.

Unless you live on another planet, you know this is a presidential election year in the U.S. The liberal/progressive Democrats say the problem this country is facing is income inequality and that the Federal government needs to do more to level the playing field for everybody. They insist taxes need to be raised so that Washington, D.C. will have more money to redistribute.

The more conservative Republicans insist that our government is too big and that the economy does better with less regulation on businesses and lower taxes for everyone. More jobs will then be created and individual incomes will grow in a thriving economy. Both sides accuse the other of trying to fix the wrong problem. If we can survive the loud voices and campaign rhetoric, the side that makes the best case will win the upcoming election.

In the next few weeks, the people’s voices will be heard as they head to the polls to continue to vote in primaries and caucuses. By this time next month, both political parties will have a pretty good idea of who will be the nominee of their party for the national election. I am not going to endorse anyone in my blog, but I would ask you to consider some very important questions before you cast that all important vote for your party's nominee.

  • What person do you want to appoint the next Supreme Court Judge? What will be the qualifications of the next Justice and what will be their philosophy on the role of Constitution in our country?
  • Whose face do you want to see in your living room on the TV for the next four years? The next President will have many problems to solve and his presence will dominate every news cycle. If you are already tired of a certain candidate, don’t vote for that person as the nominee of your party.
  • What person has the character and lifestyle you want to see exemplified that will influence our children and be an example to the rest of the world?
  • What philosophy of government do you want imposed on your children and grandchildren?  This election is not only about us but the future generations. We need someone in office who has the ability to bring both sides together so that our most pressing problems will be solved. Our descendants deserve an America with a good economy for all with peace and security in order to live as productive citizens.
  • Have you prayed about your choice for President?  As Christians, we are to be in submission to God and then to our leaders. Ask God to influence your vote and give you  wisdom as you cast your ballot.